I suck at life

because I never post anymore..with work, wifely duties, and sulking because every single one of my friends ( besides Kandi) are now expecting, I just never post on here anymore.  But, the good news is, I am getting close to embarking on IVF journey number two.  Hopefully just a few months away, and hopefully, it will be successful.  I am torn though, as to whether or not I want to post about it on here...I want my readers who aren't from here (besides Kandi) to be able to keep up, but the creepers from around here who I am not telling about IVF number two, I don't want them to know when / where/ how this time.  Last time it was just too public..Everyone knew, I was open with everyone..and everyone harrassed me when we got our BFN.  So, what to do, what to do????