Dreaded "what to do next after failed IVF meeting"

We had ours today.  We met with Dr. Ke to basically go over our chart and some options and this that and the other.  We did find out that Doc thinks he can find us donated meds so we may not have to pay full price, which was where our main hurdle was going to be..We got meds free the first time, which saved us around 3 grand.  Our total costs for treatment not counting the pre testing, sonograms etc, was almost $9600.00.  Add price of meds to that because we won't qualify for free ones again, we were estimating around 13 thousand...Plus gas going back and forth every other day for a few weeks...But we will get a small discount this round...and if he can find us donated meds, we will hopefully be able to get treatment for around 10 thousand again! That is still a lot of money, but a relief that it hopefully wont be more.  So from what we have been saving plus online donations, we already have around a thousand raised...9 to go!!!!!